The True Aspect Of Sex
Sex is hard to wait for. I completely agree. It is hard to be in a relationship and wait till marriage for having sex. But still many don’t care to give it a try just like that. They keep to themselves and keep them engaged in other aspects of life. Have you ever given a thought about “why sex is so important and of course, why so attractive ? Why do we keep thinking about it so much ? Why avoiding sex become so difficult ? Its not any mystery, its just made that way.
How Feelings Work ?
Have you ever thought of a house under construction. How it appears in its skeletal form ? Biologically, your body and sexuality also resembles the same. During birth, your sexuality was with no potential, which gained power as we developed puberty. Since then the sexuality is activated in an individual. All individuals have a mix of male and female hormones. Following your secondary sexual development, you will start feeling the rise and fall of the hormones for the opposite sex. If you are a girl, you will feel for a boy. If you are a boy, you will fall for a girl. It is very natural. It can be a strong and thrilled urge, can also be frightening at times.
Your feeling to come near her, hold her hands, sleep on his shoulders, lie on his laps, hug her to console, hug her to show your happiness, kiss her to show your ultimate love is all very obvious biologically. Even Psychology says, it is a strong urge to explore a personality which is so different from you, a strong need to love and to be loved, a desire to express your thoughts, to be unashamed and never be alone again. But all the above are associated with several questions like – “will I get person I dream of”, “Will I ever fall in love”, Will he / she fall for me”, “Am I perfect to pull some one’s attention” and many more. This is nothing else than a kind of fear.
Is The Wait Worth ?
Most people knows that having sex before marriage is wrong. And some think it’s just a crap idea to spoil some one’s party. But have you ever given a thought on the consequences of untamed hearts ? Sex at an early age can be the cause for several deadly diseases like AIDS, STDs and several other social humiliations like abortions, divorces, unwanted pregnancies, and adulteries. These are all additions to the fun you had in the party. Sex is not always a need, it has some protective reasons also.
The holy Bible also has lesson about sex, which says “Sex is wonderful within marriage. Outside of marriage, it’s an offense to the inventor”. Are you thinking why only marriage is said, why not a truly committed relationship work? Because the commitment a man and a woman make during their ceremony of marriage is the only that counts. People tend to take this commitment very seriously, they promise to share responsibilities, they commit to stay together always, they accept to respect and care for each other’s feelings, because it is set in front of the family, friends and many other invitees, who are the evidences of their true relationship. And it is believed that in marriage the love is echoed with the God. A man should love himself whenever he loves his wife. It should be a mutual thing.
For instance – Virgins who have never had sex, will be very nervous in their wedding night. You should be nervous for the biggest night of your life. Isn’t the night and relationship worth celebrating. You will unfold the mysteries of love together. Make your honeymoon a little more than your vacation. The ‘first time’ comes only once in every one’s life.
The Adam And The Eve-
In the beginning, there was nothing ! And then God created the world by carving Adam and Eve and putting life into them. They were presented to each other by God to start the life on earth. As they came closer to each other, they realized their importance. Adam accepted, “She is part of my own flesh and bone!” This is how commitment and marriage works. This bonding is needed, for which you can join your wife, leaving all other social activities. Because the sexual satisfaction is the best within a marriage. Because when you feel you are no longer two and are emotionally one, get married so that no one can separate you. After all God will join you both together.
I know it’s not easy to resist the temptations and tough to wait to have sex. But all good things comes after a long wait ! Isn’t it ?
